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When Everyday Tasks Still Need a Lot of Help

Some parts of the day seem to take forever.

Getting dressed can turn into a struggle because your child can't manage the buttons or zip. Mealtimes may be messy or stressful. They may still need help with a cup, using a spoon or going to the toilet.

You might be thinking, "Should they be able to do this by now?"

Every child gets there at their own pace, but when these things are getting in the way of everyday life, it can help to understand what's making them difficult.

An Indian child practising using a spoon at mealtime with a parent nearby

What Parents May Notice

  • Spills food often, eats very messily or keeps food in their mouth

  • Finds using a spoon, fork or open cup difficult

  • Struggles with buttons, zips, socks or getting dressed

  • Doesn't notice when they need the toilet

  • Refuses the toilet or finds toilet routines very difficult

  • Needs help with tasks you expected them to manage more independently

  • Becomes upset when asked to do everyday self-care tasks

How We Help

Occupational therapy can help with the practical skills behind everyday routines — from using cutlery and getting dressed to managing the steps involved in toileting.

We break things down and work through them at a pace your child can manage. Where appropriate, ABA therapy may also be used to help establish routines and encourage greater independence.

Parents are given ideas they can use during the routines they already have at home, rather than adding a long list of extra activities to the day.